My Friend!

As a caring man I always feel the sting when one of my kids or family and friends is going through a rough piece!We ll now is one of theose times and just happens to be a Crew Member,Erwin8R! This man has bee through a lot with this woman and has given his all to make this thing work, been sperated so many times come back and give it more and more and stil fail just the same. Sometimes there are people that you can love and adore but just can't ever be together. He has 2 kids with her and seems like she could use these kids as pawns to get back at him. I truly hate to see this man put through more drama , he works 2 jobs and puts in a good 60-70+ hours per week so she can stay home and raise the youngest kid. We as a group have been through this with Erwin many times in the past and we have always been supportive of his breakups and his reunifications. The straw that breaks the camels' Back is not too far away, but I hope that the drama does not break the man, he has way to many attributes to let this girl ruin his life and take away his happiness. As a person who has been through this with my first wife, i can empathize and sympathize with the decision to hold onto that thread of hope! As an outsider it is always easier to see the forest through the trees, but when you're deep in it, the emotions and negativity and thoughts of the kids all but put the blinders on your face and don't allow you to see the full picture and project the freedoms that await your command. But the failures of the first marriage and his 3 children with her may haunt him as well and we all know, nobody wants to fail at anything, but As I try to share with my friends, better to fail at marriage than to fail in life and parenthood. Erwin we are in the ring with you , you just have to ring the bell and get this fight over with. Here's wishing you the best and giving you the support that we all know you would give us my friend... Erwin , you're not alone